Fierce by Design: Embracing Identity Beyond the Stereotype

For much of my life, I didn’t feel like I had a voice. I didn’t fit the mold, didn’t meet the expectations, and definitely didn’t fit the stereotypes — especially the ones tied to being Chinese. I’ve heard it all growing up and, at times, even now:

“You don’t look Chinese.”
“You must be mixed — are you sure you’re Chinese?”
“Your lips are too big to be Asian.”
“You’re not a typical Chinese girl.”

That constant echo of comparison made me question who I was. It made me feel like I didn’t belong — like I had to either shrink myself or change to fit into someone else's idea of what a Chinese girl should be. At one point, I was even ashamed of being Chinese. I wanted to distance myself from what made me different.

But growth has a way of waking you up — and God has a way of reminding you who you truly are.

Over time, I began to reclaim what I once rejected. I realized I wasn’t created to fit in — I was created to stand out. I started to see the richness of being Chinese: the history, the strength, the legacy, the language, the wisdom passed down through generations. Our roots are deep — and when you’re rooted in God, you begin to see just how intentional your design is.

Now, I walk boldly in both my culture and my calling. I teach my daughter — who is Chinese and Black — to love every layer of her identity. Even at her young age, she declares her heritage with pride and confidence. That, to me, is legacy in motion.

That is the KNg Dynasty spirit.

We don’t hide our differences — we honor them. We don’t shrink — we shine. We are the descendants of empires, born with fire in our veins and purpose in our steps.

So let me ask you this:

Do you see what God sees when He looks at you?

Because He doesn’t see a mistake. He doesn’t see “not enough.” He sees His creation — fierce, beloved, handcrafted in His image. You were never meant to be a copy of someone else. You were born to walk in your own divine rhythm.

Whether you're Chinese, Black, White, mixed, or anything in between — you are royalty. You are a child of God. And you are here for a reason.

You weren’t created to blend in.
You were created to break barriers, build legacy, and live boldly.

That’s the KNg Dynasty way.

Breaking the Chains: Knowing I Am Enough in the Kingdom

Growing up in a Chinese household, the pressure to meet high expectations often felt like an invisible weight I carried everywhere. I was constantly striving, constantly comparing, and constantly questioning if I was ever enough. Every achievement felt small. Every mistake felt magnified. The culture taught me to be hard on myself—and it stuck.

I wore that mindset like armor, but instead of protecting me, it imprisoned me.

Even as an adult—now a mother, a wife, and a woman walking in her calling—I still hear that voice echoing in the background: You should be doing more. You should be better. You’re not enough. But that’s a lie I no longer claim.

Because while I honor my Chinese heritage—what shaped me, taught me resilience, discipline, and strength—I’ve come to understand something deeper. I was created first and foremost by God, in His image. That truth rewrites everything.

I am not just a product of my culture—I am a daughter of the Kingdom.

In the KNg Dynasty, we embrace this truth boldly. Our fierceness doesn’t come from trying to measure up to impossible standards. It comes from knowing who we are and whose we are. God doesn’t make mistakes. He designed me—every detail, every gift, every scar—for a divine purpose. He created me as the total package.

When I doubt my worth as a mother, a wife, a creative, a leader—God reminds me that I am equipped. I am empowered. I am chosen. He doesn't want me chasing approval. He wants me confident in His love. Rooted. Unshaken. Unapologetically fierce.

And the chains? The generational mindset of never being enough? He’s breaking them through relationship with Him. For me. For my daughter. For the next generation of Kingdom women rising in identity and power.

This is what living the KNg Dynasty life looks like:

• It’s choosing freedom over fear.

• It’s choosing purpose over pressure.

• It’s being unchained, unwavering, and unstoppable.

So if you’ve ever felt “not enough,” let this be your reminder:
You were made for more. You are already enough.
And in the eyes of the King, you are royalty.